Gay Marriage and the Church....

The Church of England has warned that proposals to legalise gay marriage could undermine its status.

The Church of England said government proposals to allow same-sex marriages by 2015 would "alter the intrinsic nature of marriage as the union of a man and a woman, as enshrined in human institutions throughout history".

 Marriage has been here since the starting of complex civilizations. During "cave men" times people were always tied to each other, but not in the sence we see it today. With the start of complex civilizations there came ceremonies and different ways of marring each other. The Mesopotamians, Harapans, Eygpyions, Nubians, lalalaalas all had marriage honey. The christains for a long time had extremely simple marriages. For a long time a white dress was not the standard. Marriage was no way influence by just one religion and one culture. It's just something that naturally comes with complex civilizations, just like jobs, money, governments etc.

King David had many wives to increase his wealth join communities together and keep his name as did many other families encourage the joining of two or more people.

Jesus preached one man and one woman, and blessed it by performing His first miracle of turning plain water into vintage wine at a marriage reception in Galilee. 

But the church today ignores the most important reason we are alive:- 

It is NOT to "focus on the family"

It is not to attend marriage seminars

The purpose of our lives as children of God (if you wish to believe is a God) is to love Him and serve our fellow humans in kindness and compassion. The modern church has made marriage and family into an idol.

More Christan's get divorced each year and is increasing...... 

Christianity did not create marriage!!! so why do they feel the right to dictate who can form  a partnership full of love, kindness and compassion???

What our world lacks in an unmeasurable way is

Love

Kindness

Compassion

Does it really matter who forms a partnership?? Surely the best question would be do these people show Love? Kindness? Compassion?

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I wonder?

i sit in my little world surrounded by what i think are pretty good friends... I watch their ups and downs, listen to their woes and fears and on odd occasions give good sound advice or at least make them smile with a thought way out of the box.. that's me... I am simple what you see is what you get.

I write this today as I am so saddened with events that have happened over the last few days.. decisions made by people whom as supposedly educated??  The loss of a persons (whom i did not know but believe in the cause she and many stand for) who battled the recent changes in the Great British Welfare system just as I have, she won just like me... but then she lost her life.. I wonder if the stress of the battle had caused this persons light to fade in this broken world...?? I expect so... then I wonder if the British people could or even would take these people to court for the added stress they cause their subjects to go through because some people have no brain or will to stand up and say yes! this person needs welfare help stuff my targets to get so many thousands of this benefit!! where are these people???

Another sad event Lennox the dog... even with lots of evidence to say this dog is not a banned or dangerous breed.. he still seems to lose his battles just because of the way he looks.... 

Why are these educated people making so many mistakes and not looking at the evidence to support peoples cases and dogs cases... What are they afraid of? Or have they just gone mad insane.. and take the easy way out!

I won my case with the people whom we put of trust in.. was not easy and there was plenty of stress, but I had faith in my Doctors and my team who helped me get the right decision in the end. 

These battles with DWP/Courts/Appeals etc must be costing you, me the tax payer thousands maybe millions of pounds wasted because an educated idiot thinks he knows better than consultants, GP's who you have seen for years.. a 15 min chat and he/she knows you knows what struggles you have to overcome to have a existence not a life of Riley. Could that money be spent more wisely?? saving the people of Britain?


Can we trust and put faith in the people this country voted in... or is it time for a change.  Lets face it all politicians lie to get their foot in the door.. they have great plans then realise they are living in cuckoo land and Great Britain is broken Britain.


I agree welfare does need a urgent reform... then why not start with why do people come to Britain to live.... because the welfare system is great easy access to money.. so why not state if you want welfare help you have to put into the system for min 5 years, pay your taxes for 5 whole years.  All claimants should use their finger prints each time they sign on or make a claim so we can reduce people claiming under false names.. 

Target people who have been unemployed the longest.. these are the hardest people to remove from the welfare system as they have adjusted and become settled into their routine (i don't mean all of these people, some I know are trying to make a difference but just hit brick walls).
Make working a better option.. 

The families whom don't need welfare, footballers, millionaires etc.. don't give them child benefit they don't really need it also cap it at 2 children per family, if people want more they have to be able to support themselves.


Give high earners bigger tax breaks to get them to stay in Britain, don't push them out.


Stop making deals where the large companies who evade paying taxes.. make them fairer to invite companies to start in Britain and therefore have natural growth which in turn makes Britain Great.


I feel these educated people are only looking at short term options and not really listening to their people.  remember we voted them in and we can dam well vote them out! (although not sure any other party will be any better once they see the books).  


I look at peoples facebook and twittter notes, i see lots of people in despair and nothing is changing for them, its just brick wall after brick wall. People need hope... a sign that things will be better.. we know it will take time we don't want a rush plaster put on a problem we want a solid plan that's fair and can be achieved.

Make Britain a Great Britain

I consider myself lucky... although I have mobility issues and a brain that's not firing on all cylinders at present.. I am alive with a great network of family and friends who support me unconditionally. I have 2.5 dogs who give me love and don't leave my side when i have bad days.  My partner is amazing, caring and motivating. 

Its a hard life living within our family... as you can see..


ok change of subject  - email to CEO of parkway Green has worked.. I have had many people visit to do or plan to do the work needed to bring the property up to date, ie, fencing new roof, lights etc.. and I was right.. not my responsibility to maintain a house i no longer own.. another battle won.


I am still off work.. bored senseless (although some people would argue with that statement).  Neuro appt. all booked now just taking each day as it comes.. and enjoying making friends laugh at my lack of brain power to do simple tasks or even keep a conversation going.. but I am good, slowly I feel like things are coming back but its slow, three steps forward then two steps back.


Well I have to stop there as my eye lids are having an overwhelming urge to shut for a long time... oh about 10 hours or so.. darn medication...


Be good and think about what your actions mean or could affect others.. be kind even in this tough world.. 


Nite nite all .. sleep well 


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